From talking to several folks that run 4-53T's in pickup trucks, they all use some sort of muffler, and they are reasonably quiet. Buy explaining my goal of just quiet enough, but not silent, they say with that long of a straight pipe I'll want a resonator or small straight through muffler to take the edge off of it, it'll sound better they say.
So I'm thinking about this 5" Magnaflow http://cgi.ebay.com/ebaymotors/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&sspagename=STRK%3AMEWAX%3AIT&viewitem=&item=220285698780 it's 7" OD and 24" long, straight through with some stainless steel and ceramic wool in it. Stainless steel with a lifetime free replacement, and as cheap or cheaper than any of the others I was considering.