Sounds like a reasonable plan.
I doubt you feel a loss of "power" with the faster 4.10 gears. Actually I expect you will appreciate the improvement in how it drives on the highway so much you then wish you had the 3.73 gears you wanted to start with.
When you get a chance please start a new thread so we can follow along with your progress.
If you learn things that need incorporating in this thread then we'll add them here later.
I've noticed technical "how to" threads become less and less useful the longer they get.