You're right about gasket thickness bring important. Most PTO's have a pipe plug somewhere on the housing that allows a dial indicator to contact one of the gears, and different thickness gaskets or several thin ones are used to achieve a minimum amount of backlash. That "thick" gasket might be a multi-layer item that can be peeled back a little at a time if the backlash is too much.

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