Did you see this info previously, and here's some references to check and explain.
http://www.stovebolt.com/techtips/driveline/setup/index.html...a u-joint is not the ideal coupler because in this case it wouldn't have any angle to operate through, it'd be straight. A U-joint with no movement soon wears flat spots on the needles and corresponding groves on the trunnions. I suppose if it's a bushing type u-joint (no needle bearings) there is more leeway, still though that's not as good a junction in this case as a straight splined coupling would be.
Grigg
The shifter bracket looks much like some of the later Spicer auxiliary shifters, they may have that smaller ball size.
You could machine or have made what you need to fit if you can't find an old one.