From what I've read (I've never done a T-5 yet)you have to grind the splines further back towards the transmission so the T.O. bearing slides far enough back to not be in constant contact with the pressure plate. Maybe that's the reason for your premature wear,
Scott

Scott Ward

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The red one and The snow pusher
1 1950 3100
1 1955.1 Chevy 6500
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