If your driveshaft is at risk of destruction with your setup you need a different driveshaft designed to handle your application.
I would not want the driveshaft to be a weak link or possible failure anywhere close to normal working range.
Here are some links to good driveshaft info
http://www.stovebolt.com/techtips/driveline/setup/index.htmlAfter skimming through that you may determine you have a good shaft for the job, and if not I'd call a professional driveshaft shop and have one built pronto.
Grigg