WELL....YA CAN HEAR ALOT OF THE SAME ALL AROUND..IT IS WHAT YA MAKE IT ..ALWAYS TALK AND ALWAYS WORK TOGETHER ON ANYTHING...HELP EACH OTHER AND IT WILL WORK OUT JUST FINE ...I HAVE BEEN AT IT FOR 16 YRS AND HAVE LOVED EVERY MINUTE OF IT ...WAITED 6 YEARS BEFORE WE HAD OUR FIRST CHILD...WE HAVE 2 NOW !!!8 YR GIRL AND A 4YR BOY...I'M 40 NOW AND AM JUST LOVING EVERY MINUTE...I WISH YOU WELL ........GARY