There should be virtually no slack in the spider gear/axle gear assembly. Something is badly worn, or parts are missing. There is supposed to be a hardened thrust washer between the back of each spider gear and the carrier housing, and probably another one between each axle gear and the carrier. If those thrust washers are gone, it would account for the slack, and possibly for the gears coming unmeshed.
Jerry

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