Boy, this inter web net e thingy is kinda cool. From a google search... Called these folks out of Buffalo and found a nice looking match.
TemperCoat 600 - #34 medium gray (feedback please)
850 max temp and no color loss.
http://www.flamecontrol.com/hr_downloads.html#colorchartDraw back, you gotta buy a gallon... Might be worth it for the match. Need to buy from a retail paint specialty store. they said "brush, roller or spray" - i may use all of those...