Jack,
Here's an interesting article that addresses your issue:
http://www.mopar1.us/engine3.htmlIt also covers the actual performance gains from headers and a balance tube ("H" pipe) between the exhaust pipes.
The performance gains from a balance tube has been known to drag racers since the 1960s. An added benefit to a daily driver is that a balance tube makes the system quieter.
Some may say that tube headers leak. That has not been my experience. For example the "shorty" tube headers on my sbc powered street roadster were installed in 2003, don't leak now and never have. The bolts at the exhaust ports did have to be tightened a few times when I first drove it as the gaskets compressed. Not being a professional mechanic I don't know if the use of Edelbrock aluminum heads had anything to do with the bolts needing to be snugged down. These were not any kind of special gaskets, just the ones that came in a Felpro engine rebuild gasket set.