I bought the harness from LMC and the relays are not numbered. After not knowing a thing about relays, I got Baptized by fire. I don't have a schematic of the harness but I can explain how it wired up.
I ran 10 gauge wire from the horn relay to a 20 amp maxi fuse. From there, each power wire for the relays were connected to the other side of the maxi fuse. The power is supplied to the "30" pin of each relay. The "85" pin receives the low beam signal from the dimmer switch, in this case it's the 18 gauge tan wire. This harness has two wires coming from the "87" pin, one for each headlight. The "86" pin is your relay grounds. For the high beam signal, it is the 16 gauge light green wire to the "85" pin of the second relay. And the second relay also has two wires going coming from its "87" pin, one for each headlight. This harness also came with the plugs for the headlights and a ground wire for each headlight. The harness came with a 3 prong plug that was supposed to plug into the plug at the radiator core support,but there are only 2 wires at the existing plug, so the 3 prong plug had to be eliminated. To further complicate things, this harness didn't come with correct colored wires, but by utilizing the shop manual wire diagrams, it was easier to figure out. Hope this helps. It's not a visual diagram, but a Google search will have many samples of diagrams.
Last edited by LoweBoy; 12/13/2015 5:23 PM. Reason: Had the relays pins wrong in the explanation