At the top right of this very page there is a tab for "Tech Tips"
In there you'll find this very handy Tip for setting up drivelines.
http://www.stovebolt.com/techtips/driveline/setup/index.htmlSome short answers: You want to do this with the complete truck, loaded as you'll likely drive it, bed on for sure. The pinion shaft should be parallel to the transmission output shaft.
Read the manuals, it's some cool stuff and I bet you have fun with this little project.
Grigg