"Now what I'm not here for is for people to tell me what I want."
In rereading the posts on this thread I can guarantee you NO ONE here has "told you what you want". They may have suggested what the consequences of choices might be but that is simply advice, what you claim to want.
You might be happier back on those other sites you claim to visit. Folks here are happy to help with advice, but if you misread what they say...
