LGringo,
I went for overkill when restoring my Suburban. I used almost all stainless Hardware from
Totally StainlessAs you stated, most of their SS is grade-5, but they also have
grade-8 equivalent ss hardware.
They also have very nice black anodized ss hardware that matches nicely the color and head-type to hold the inner-to-outer fenders and the attachment of fenders and shroud to the radiator support (47-55).
They sell by piece, in quantity, and in pre-packaged kits by component/vehicle (I think that Jim Carter might resell their pre-packaged kits).
I also found that
MSC Stainless had a wide variety of hardware at good prices (and good service).