If you know what engine RPM you desire at what road speed you can then calculate and decide what gears, tire size, and transmission ratio will get you there.
Try this calculator:
http://www.onlineconversion.com/bigger_tires.htmI'm not so sure that 4.09 and 4.11 gears in the same vehicle (with same tire size) are a good idea?
Get a few more opinions on that before deciding.
Mud is one thing, but if you plan to use it where you have reasonable traction for both axles it could be a problem.
Grigg