ALL IS WELL!!!! I have decided that I was being a little bit overzealous. The oil is clean and black. I pulled the drain plug, no creamy stuff or anti-freeze. I pulled all of the plugs and none of them were dirty or coolant covered. I checked and re-checked the oil, clean and black. My anti-freeze levels have not dropped since this morning. With the cap off there are no bubbles coming up when engine is running. I think that all is well and I was overly concerned. Thanks for all of the advice, I really appreciate it. This page is a Godsend.