NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO-NO! Please don't try to pull the bolts into the rod with the nut- - - - - -you'll overstress the thread, or strip it, or both. ARP bolts need to be PRESSED into the rod with an arbor press or a hydraulic press, using a support fixture to prevent any distortion of the rod. That's why the machine shop where I managed the rod room always insisted on reconditioning the rods when we sold a set of ARP bolts. It's cheap insurence to do that, as the big end of the rod must be perfectly round, and the right size within 1/2 thousandth or so to establish the right rod bearing clearance. Pressing a new set of bolts in can upset both the roundness, and the bearing bore size to some extent.
Jerry