I know what you mean about the slop... I had the same problem with my 59 with the sm420 granny low transmission.

I would reccomend a heavier transmission for a 3/4 ton truck. The A833(my6) would be high on the list, but it will take some machining to make it a bolt on deal. Your 3/4 ton likely has 4.57 gears. You can swap the pumpkin out for a 4.11 gearset. An overdrive transmission with a .73 final drive will give you an effective 3.34 gear ratio with your stock gears. That would put you around 2350 rpm @65 mph with 31 inch tall tires. You would be at 2113 rpm if you changed the rear gears to 4.11 with the same OD transmission and tires.