Sorry to hear about both of your accidents....they happen....but weren't you both lucky that you were driving antiquated old trucks, that in spite of their lack of ABS, side and front air bags, crash sensors and all the other "safety" stuff, let you walked away unhurt?
Bill, I checked your pictures, noted the damages which accumulatively amount to a lot of fixing, but I was disappointed that you didn't include pictures of the Jetta. By the amount you mentioned, I would imagine it was significant.
I understand your concern for their safety and loss of transportation. What amazes me, is that the modern vehicle is just so expensive to repair even after the most minor collision. With insurance prices escalating and the road becoming even more congested, will the average person even be able to afford modern transportation and be able to secure reasonable insurance coverage? It makes me wonder if we're headed in the right direction. Just my $.02.
Dave