I agree. Once I bid on an item, I can't stand not to win it - it pi&&es me off terribly, and I take it very personally. On the other hand, after you win an item, it's thrilling to come home at the end of the day and have a package waiting that's always something good!
Personally, I think eBay is an excellent TOOL for restorers. Whether you bid or not, you can learn a He!! of a lot about what was out there 40 years ago, just with a little searching of what's for sale.
I just wish I hadn't opted to invest in their Stupid-A%% stock right before it tanked!!! Just proves the moral: Never invest in the market (or old Trucks!) what you can't afford to lose.
-Michael