Mostly by ear with some feel. Right, you learn the sound that the engine should make (rpm) for any given MPH and gear combination.
Given the two constants of MPH and gear selection at the time of shifting you vary the engine RPM to match what you have practiced and remembered it should be for the situation.

If you can drive one by ear you can learn the sounds and feel of another quickly, but you will crash a few times as you learn each vehicle.

Grigg


1951 GMC 250 in the Project Journals
1948 Chevrolet 6400 - Detroit Diesel 4-53T - Roadranger 10 speed overdrive - 4 wheel disc brakes
1952 Chevrolet 3800 pickup
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"First, get a clear notion of what you desire to accomplish, and then in all probability you will succeed in doing it..." -Henry Maudslay-