John, if you'd like to get more specific in a PM or an email, I'm all ears. I can run your situation by the VSO I mentioned above, and he will give us the straight answers- - - -no legalese or bureaucratic BS involved! I'll be contacting him anyway- - - -one of my friends at our 60th. high school class reunion last weekend told me about a widow of a veteran who is in need of some care she probably will be qualified for as a retiree's dependent. She's an advanced cancer patient with a prognosis that isn't good.
Jerry


"It is better to be silent and be thought a fool than to speak and eliminate all doubt!" - Abraham Lincoln
Cringe and wail in fear, Eloi- - - - -we Morlocks are on the hunt!
There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self. - Ernest Hemingway
Love your enemies and drive 'em nuts!