When I replaced my buckets, I had a similar situation. From my shop log -
June 30th 2002 Thought more about the mis-matched headlight connectors overnite. Decided to abandon the search for a matching connector. Instead, the wiring stub harness female connector was cut off and replaced by three female blade connectors. The main disadvantage with this solution is that I now have to remember and document which wire connects to which terminal (brown-top, black-left, green-right). The connection was finished up with an electrical tape wrapping and the inner fender grommet was placed on the stub harness using the needle-nose pliers trick to spread the grommet opening enuf to get the wires thru.
Headlight buckets imageBillyBob Wiring DiagramOn my truck, green is the high beam. Hope this helps