Ok with more frustrating efforts I failed again at getting it out of gear!! However I laid under there with a flashlight just looking at everything I could like a crime scene or something, and i found some metal on metal action in there. It appears that the 3rd speed main gear has rubbed the shift fork(like the shift fork dropped/lowered) just barely grinded into it but its shiny so that's how I seen it. The gear itself appears fine tho.

So back to my other question what will happen if I try opening the top cap of transmission without having the shifter halfway in reverse? Cuz I HAVE to get inside this thing so I can FIX IT!!! I dont care if I break something that's already bent or whatever cuz its obviously causing this and only any to fix it is to get inside. So something's gotta give or break haha. I would prefer to know what I'm gonna break tho before I do it so I can break it the right way lol.

Thanks,
Mike