will the 4 speed tranny that is in the truck now bolt up to the 350?
It will with the right bellhousing.
-will the 4-speed explode behind the 350
Maybe
(will have 200 hp when i put it in, but will change the heads/cam to get it to 300-350 hp)
change the above maybe to probably
-if i use the th350, will the original driveshaft work?
No, you'll need one custom built.
Side note: If you want a race truck why are you starting with a 1-ton?
Question: Do you know that your rear end ratio is lower than 5 to 1?