Likely need pictures to confirm. Handle sounds correct and they are the hardest piece to find. Search site. There was a recent post that included graphics of pieces and storage for tf. Optional tire and wheel combos may have effect on jack height. I am not sure position for jacking on tf trucks. I position under the axle at the backing plate on my 60s.
Lugs (3/4 inch) - I find at local Napa.
