I have mentioned the above difficulty my friend has experienced when attempting to find these bearings, repeatedly. People ignore me and keep dragging out the same tired old suggestions. Getting ignored irritates me.

I could pout, whine and delete all my posts. I choose not to do that.
Jerry


"It is better to be silent and be thought a fool than to speak and eliminate all doubt!" - Abraham Lincoln
Cringe and wail in fear, Eloi- - - - -we Morlocks are on the hunt!
There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self. - Ernest Hemingway
Love your enemies and drive 'em nuts!