Allen, your ideas sound right on the money to me.
Your tank looks very similar to the '49-'52 Chevy passenger car gas tank I am using in my '65 C10.
The problem with any type of valve in the vent line is it restricts the flow of air/gas vapors in the vent line. I suspect that is part of your slow filling problem.
I used a "sintered bronze vent fitting" (google it) on the end of the hose on the vent on my truck. I did this to prevent dirt and bugs from getting into the gas tank. I attached the vent to the vent hose on the top of the tank away from the exhaust.
vent fitting The fitting was purchased at a tractor supply store and it's intended use is as a vent on a hydraulic fluid storage tank (to vent petrochemical vapors).
Your idea of using a filler neck with a vent fitting is a good one, but I doubt you will find one with a 1/2" vent port unless you make one for yourself. My only regret on my installation is that I didn't do this very thing. Mine fills slower than I would like.
More info here:
Rear mount gas tankHope that helps

John