Well the easiest answer is that no car I can think of has ever been designed that way.

I could be wrong on that though.
My assumption is that having both a Runtz and a ballast resistor will contribute to a problem with the ohms.
As far as the ground, did you use a new screw and rough up the metal? I always use star washers to cut into the metal a bit.
Technically, if everything is wired correctly, removing the wire from the sending unit should send the fuel gauge to full. Touching the sending unit wire to a ground should go all the way in the other direction to below full. If that checks out, than either the needle on your gauge is bent or the gauge might be toast.
The needle could also move in the opposite direction of what I just said when testing, I can't remember it's been a long time!
Jeff