Not sure of exact years, but any manual shift Chevy V8 will probably have a "N" flywheel. I think mine came from a Z28. It shouldn't cause any problems with the linkage, throwout bearing etc. If you do decide to go this route, be sure to find a machine shop who knows what they're doing. Machining and drilling a flywheel is a precision operation, and the machinist will probably ask that you provide him the crankshaft so he can do the job right.
I'm not sure how to answer your question on damper pulleys. The 228 pulleys I've seen are a press fit on the crank snout, and the 302 damper is secured by a big 7/16 UNF bolt. I also think the crank snout lengths are different (228 is shorter) so I don't quite see how the 228 damper would work on the 302, without shortening the crank snout. I've see this done, but always accompanied by drilling and tapping he end of the crank for a retaining bolt. Without a retaining bolt, a 302 WILL launch any damper pulley in very short order. I prefer to use the stock 302 double groove pulley, GM put all that damping there for good reason - crank harmonics. And the extra groove is nice for A/C or a power steering pump. This will fit if you move the radiator forward a bit, and use the outer flange of the core support. A solid
Flex-a-lite fan will clear the pulley and radiator.