Highlander, that is a BEAUTIFUL way to discribe the lap weld, "Utility", I will be using that if you don't mind.
Guys, this is how I see it. The ENTIRE truck, EVERY SINGLE CAR made for many, many decades is a lap/pinch weld. Let me say that agian. There is not one single butt weld on 99.9% of the cars made all over the world in the last half century or more.
Your ENTIRE truck is held together with lap/pinch welds. Sooooo, to add another is not a big deal. It is however as Highlander pointed out not the end all for custom or super high quality work. If you "can" butt weld, then by all means do it.
Only you can say whether you have the skill to butt weld, it does require more skill,that is a fact.
My way of thinking is, I much rather see you do a lap weld, finish the truck and see your smiling face behind the wheel down the road. I feel that is a better way to go than to be all stressed out over a failed butt weld attempt.
The average collision repair shop lap or "Butt with backing" EVERY single weld on repairs. This is the standard industry accepted method. It is recommended by most all industry organizations such as ICAR and ASE.
However, that and doing high quality restoraton or hot rod work are two different things. Butt welding is always preferred in these circumstances.