We figured it out.
I turned on the perklights and found which wire feeds running/parklights and matched it to the wire that powered the (dimmer) element of the bild.. Then the ofer wire fed current to the (brighter) element when the turnsignal or brakes were applied. basically they were wired backwards.

Brain fart after hours of re-wiring.
Everything is working good now!!
thanks for the reply,
JasonM