I am no expert on this but a relay will not the AMP draw on your alternator.
It sounds like you need a better / higher AMP alternator??
When you turn on your A/C your alternator is not able to keep up with all the demand.
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Kelly
1951 Chevy 3100
1967 RS/SS Camaro