If you keep the 4.56 and still want to keep up with traffic you need an overdrive transmission, that's why we recommended the NV4500
For disc brakes there is no kit available, but there are ways of fabricating something to work. I'm figuring and calculating on that right now for an AD 1 ton truck.
What is the wheel mounting surface to wheel mounting surface measurement on your truck any how, we might have a nice solution already (but it's not quite narrow enough for an AD truck)
Check this thread, although it wanders around there are some good thoughts and ideas in there. That's what I'm working on now.
https://www.stovebolt.com/ubbthreads/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=603612#Post603612Then if you want a newer rear axle check this thread
https://www.stovebolt.com/ubbthreads/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=599879#Post599879Grigg