I have made diaphragms out of heavy-duty rubberized gasket meterial. Is the diaphragm riveted to the operating rod, or attached in some other way? It should be possible to fabricate a shaft with a threaded stud to attach the diaphragm with a nut and washers if necessary.
Jerry

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