I found my answer, thx squeeze the fork I am using is missing it's "pivot ball spring clip retainer"! That is why it is so wonky on the ball. Also to Avette4me I took your info about the possible size difference researched it and found no real specs. So being as I'm unsure about the correctness of the fork, and am missing parts on top of that, I ordered a new fork and related assembly. Was pretty cheap too 80 bucks. On a side note has anyone had experience with LMC, they were the only place I could find that had these items. If I'm not supposed 2 mention company names in this fashion I'll edit right away, just I'm from Canada and this is my first time ordering parts out of country.
Thanks as always for the speedy, and helpful replies !!