Thank you ALL for your prayers and very kind words. Sorry I know this post was way off topic.
Great news! He pulled through his surgery this morning. He was awake and alert going in and coming out. Now I feel the battle is half won.
The advice you have given about our relationship moving forward has been well taken. This whole episode has helped put things into perspective for me. Feel free to send any comments, advice or criticisms.
Thanks once again,
Fred Tyler