Boo, I am very sorry for your loss. I lost my Grandad this year which was just like a father to me. He lived down the road from me and if he saw my shop door open he always stopped to help me or watch what I was doing and if there was a car show or swap meet he was always ready to go! I often forget he is not here for a split second ,It has been hard not to be able to call him and ask his advice or call him and tell him about a swap meet or car show coming up . It has taken me 6 months to want to get started again on my truck or to go into my shop and do much of anything , but I started going to the car shows and swap meets again etc ... and decided that this is stuff that has meaning to me because of him ,so I am determined to get my truck on the road this year in his honor.As far as my father goes we have not gotten along so great over the last ten years but my Grandads death has made me try to get over the problems and attempt start over with him.