no, not necessary - I've put about 40,000mi on a 57 235 w/ unleaded, no probs, and have run lots of old 283's, 327's w/ unleaded - story is the valve seats may wear a bit faster being not-hardened, but nobody seems to think it
really affects longevity - when ya get yer motor rebuilt, ask for hardened seats
and welcome to the garage, where yer every puzzle can be solved eventually!!
Bill