You've been around a while, Redcoat, and I see you jumped right in to another discussion on wheels.
I don't have the information at my fingertips on torque for the lug nuts, and I'm sure some of the old boogers can just put a twitch on ya so quick. What happened is unfortunate, but somebody here will dig through the files and give you just exactly what you want to know.
In fact, I just got an idee.......!