1. Forget that relay they gave you.
2. You will not use that connector.
3. Buy the Relay I linked for you.
4. We will add a red wire when you get the relay.
5. We will find the black wire.
6. Do you see the green wire? It's OK if you don't find it, we will take care of that also.

Can you post a good pic or two of the connector at the column. The one seen on the right middle of 500560 instructions, sheet 3. Please take pics so I can see the wire and their colors going into it and coming out of it.


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