Made some progress, the manual doesn't say anything about re adjusting the brakes over and over again.
I adjusted them how you guys said then pumped the pedal to center the pads. Went back to check the adjustment and they were loose again.
I did this like 5 times, now the pedal feels good after one pump, and the first pump is much better than before.
I'm gonna bleed the brakes again and adjust them again and i should be in business!