You might not find drums for your original rear, but what else can't you find?
I've found everything I need, and many others have rebuilt and still run the original Eaton. Even the 4.10 gears aren't that hard to find used.
I do like the 14 bolt, but it's not a necessary swap.
Have you looked for disc brake brackets for the old Eaton? Pretty sure they exist in the 4x4 aftermarket.