In my opinion it does not matter who is responding to whom. Bad emails, no calls, can't get phone numbers, etc. From what you've said, I would stop trying to contact or trick him or whatever. I would concentrate on getting the money reversed/refunded and ONLY that. No more "lets discuss our problem". Get the money, forget this drama bit and move on. If you can't get the money, get a lawyer. You don't need a phone call. You are not going to get a phone call. Nothing to discuss. You two are not clicking, you do not really want to do any business now. Too much history. If you are trying to contact to ball him out, forget that. The law probably says you need at least one message (proof), that you ask for your money back. Seller does not know that yet?
Hope I'm wrong and he calls and apologizes and sends parts today. Not passing judgement on either party.
Remember: You, yourself, take 2 days to respond here.
