Yuma
Don't worry about bringing a truck just try and make it.
As for your wife. The first time, I went stag, not knowing what to expect and I had a great time. When I got home I told the wife "You have to go to this". I can't go without her now.
Infact, if I get laid up for some reason, I can see her going without me.
The next year, the group went to the original Arthur Bryant's for dinner.
This will be my 6th year attending and we plan our vacation around it.
Our thoughts are with you on your treatments and hope you can attend.
Don King