many thanks!
as a result of the info you provided, here is my plan:
#1
going to take the bumper off and put a 'normal' one on from LMC.
#2
I think it might be a cleaner look without them, so I will remove the hooks.
#3.
it would be cool if I could get that spot light working, but that can wait until I get other things sorted out. for now I will leave it be.
#4
not sure what to do with the fender mounted turn signals. might be a cleaner look without it. they are so big and seem out of place on a small truck. I am leaning towards removing them.
#5
and
#6
will take them off and replace with the correct lights.
thanks again!